here are some nice-tactful-motivated quotes from Ajahn Brahm in his talkshow 'Love You' in Bandung (26/3/10)

Good,Bad, who knows?
so when your girlfriend dumbed you, good, bad, who knows? in fact, if my girlfriend never dumbed me, I won't be a monk.

Don't love someone because someone is perfect.
it just make you fatigue to find the perfect person. no one is perfect right doesn't always mean perfect.

Being angry = being temporary insane

No matter what you do, i still love you.
this is what so called as a universal love.for all human being.


you can't understand the meaning of something when that thing is still with you.
when you do meditation and reach Jhana, you will know the meaning of your body and mind because you are no longer with both of them.


whenever you are tired to hold this glass, just put it down.
so does your activities. everytime you feel so weary with your hectic activities, just leave it a while and when you go back to your activities you will feel better.



Gay and Lesbian are welcomed in Buddhist.
in Karaniya Metta Sutta, Buddha never made exception toward Gay and Lesbian.It's said that 'May all beings be happy', it also prevails for Gay and Lesbian. I have lot of gay and lesbian flocks but all of them are nice in worship.


*all the explanation above has been reworded,each words are not exactly same, but the essence is same.